I think that it's life that look at oneself through others is too poor life. I'm sure that we have to find a identity through oneself. don't care to others view or opinion. let us have a self-esteem based in by self. when we can't handle to our identity what numerous copied, it might be lost myself.
If we can't escape from gravity, the will of opposition might something like a persist of bully. no way that life for just follow to mass. when we make a standard by oneself, finally we can get a absolutely value in our life.
How we can start for understand human as microcosm?