Remember that time when you were selfish all the way and then someone you loved died?
It made you stay longer with people you love.
Remember that time when you were healthy and then all of a sudden it wasn't there by an accident or a disease?
It made you grateful about ' normal '
things you never noticed.
Remember that time you were alone because someone left you?
It made you appreciate the ones who always stay.
Remember that failure that made you believe it is the end of you.
It made you believe you are strong enough to pass anything.
I know it's clichè to say: What doesn't kill you make you stronger.
I'd say: What breaks you, makes you more human.