New Year's day many children gathered about their own ideal, have wanted to be a scientist, the President, the astronaut's...Elders praise sound, how to also smile not to come out, my heart if any child said "I grew up and want to go to the booth pancakes," estimates will be cursed elders no ambition, but I think he will be very happy when I grew up, the people grew up rules on the heights of society: only the most intelligent children can obtain the reward, only to learn the best children to be a teacher like...When children think of themselves which has less than one, will be afraid of failure, fear of psychological produced, how can healthy growth, in other words we are adults, be swayed by considerations of gain and loss to rush and isn't affected by the environment since childhood?

过年众多小孩子齐聚一堂，说起自己的理想时，有想当科学家的、总统的、宇航员的...长辈们不停的发出赞许的声音，我心里却怎么也笑不出来，如果有哪个小孩说“我长大想去摊煎饼”，估计会被长辈大骂没出息，我却认为他长大以后会很幸福，社会的标尺把人从小就规定了高度：只有最聪明的孩子才能得到奖励、只有学习最好的孩子才能被老师喜欢...当孩子认为自己哪方面逊色不如人，便会害怕失败，恐惧的心理产生了，如何才能健康成长，换言之我们现在的成年人，患得患失急于求成，难道不是从小受这样的环境影响吗？