We have experienced such a thing, in the stores have a crush on a garment, tried and tried, finally find that the price is too expensive, when the clerk ready flowery rhetoric amway you, you said this is not good to me around, then tall leave...We seem to have become more and more accustomed to a person of "take the initiative to give up", in order not to embarrass yourself, so we first give up, and get a psychological sense of superiority, head more and more sharp horns to protect us more and more fragile glass heart.