It's so hard to forget pain, It's so hard to hide the scar. If we can control our minds, we can find the way to let go, we can find the way to forgive, we can find the way to enlightenment; & all wisdom & virtue will come naturally to us. Peace is beyond the notions of wrongdoing & rightdoing, it is a mental state brougt about by a serenity of soul. Peace is the occurrence of harmony that sets you free from pleasure, possessions & power. Pain demands to be felt & peace demands sacrifice. The practice of forgiveness is the key to the healing.