Why Are Interracial Couples A Benefit To Society?
Humans are social animals that love company. We involve ourselves in hundreds of relationships with others from our family, school, town, workplace, etc. If we do something different, like marry someone from a different race, people start sharing their opinions about the advantages and disadvantages of someone from a different culture. Some comments can be hurtful and put the relationship on shaky ground. The secret is not to be emotionally overwhelmed by people’s negativity.
Enhance creativity
Someone involved in relationship life coaching is also a neuroscience research and training specialist. She enlightened me about ‘brain-body optimization.’ It is about how our neurological and biological systems can work together to make us reach a point of high performance and thriving in life. The crux of the matter is that our brain is hardwired to ‘collaborate.’ It has evolved to work together or fail alone. There is a ‘driver’ in our brains called ‘collective creativity.’
Collective creativity is why we are more creative, innovative, and high performing in a group than alone. Evidence from research shows that the collective’s intelligence always trumps a person’s intelligence. It’s why we need to work together to solve the various problems we face as Homo sapiens. Interestingly, to enhance collective intelligence, we need ‘diversity!’
According to our brains and neurology, humans perform better and increase their creativity when collaborating, integrating, and relating with myriad ethnicities and cultural backgrounds. It’s easier said than done. How can we do that without friction when we live in a world where most people can barely stand to see two people with different color skins hugging?
Why is an interracial relationship better?
You might want free love. You might ponder - if the army and best sports teams are interracial; why is there such a commotion about interracial couples? It’s the way some people are wired to feel their race and religion are superior. They feel the need to be vociferous and coax others to listen.
If you ask me or any of my close friends, they’ll tell you that an interracial relationship is a great choice. Let’s look at why we feel like this.
You are at another level where the cast and skin color are concerned. You might believe in ‘collective creativity.’
Your level of maturity is enough to understand the importance of true love.
You would rather ignore outdated stereotypes. If something makes you happy, you do it.
Interracial couples are making our world a better place to live because these relationships increase diversity acceptance and gradually erase racism and hatred.
Reality is a friend
When you feel that panic seeping into your mind when you can’t function properly because of how people comment about your interracial relationship, remember that you are the mature person there. It’s like some parents who can’t accept their son marrying an older woman. It’s about true love, and there are no boundaries in that world. The best relationship life coaching session will tell you the same. It will highlight the precautions and explain how to make them work.
