The Downsides of Being Too Available in a Relationship

Don’t be too available.

A lot of people tend to give this advice to those who are in a relationship. At first, I didn’t understand its value, until I heard the reason behind it.

According to science, we love the thrill of the chase because of the dopamine-driven feedback loop.

It’s inherent to value something more when uncertainty is at its highest because of a drug-like chemical in our brain that triggers the feeling of happiness.

This means that the more someone becomes unavailable, the more we want to chase after them. When they are too available, on the other hand, there is not much thrill and we are not as enticed to win them over.

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