I am a girl,

So I have to compromise

So I should know how to cook

So I should talk softly

So I should be the punching bag for everyone

I am a girl,

So I should stay at home after 7 in night

So I should not wear short clothes as I are inviting the rapist

So I should be the responsible one

I am a girl,

So I should focus on household work instead of studying

So I can be a part of a family but never the heir

So I am burden on my parents

I am a girl,

So I should be perfect beauty with brain

So I should be married by 25

So I should look after my husband

I am a girl,

So I should not be more successful than by husband

So I should produces babies till the baby is a boy

So I should sacrifice my career to become a better mother

We expect girls to play every role in her life perfectly and flawlessly but we never ask what she wants.

We say she should not show her skin as it is provoking but most of the rapes are done with fully covered girl.

We say staying out late at night is dangerous but what happens when we have a hungry beast within our own.

If we wear western clothes than we are not spiritual enough

If we are bold than we are shameless

If we want to stand by our choices than we are selfish

If we are feminist than we hate men and their guts

If we are having sex before marriage than we are characterless

If we were raped than may be we provoke the guy

We all say beti bachoo

                   Beti padhao

But we never say beto KO samjho

Nahi samjha to khich ke do ek chata