Why Do We Ignore Red Flags in Relationship and Its Effects
There are some major red flags in relationship and we shouldn’t ignore them. You might be wondering what is a red flag? Never heard about it. So, a red flag is an intuitive image that can help you proceed with what you’re really feeling. Most of us must have at least one, whether we notice it or not since we’re denial about it. Here are some keys relational red flags to look out for: lack of trust and community, irresponsibility, insecurity, a secret past, controlling, and abusive. If you think there’s something wrong, moreover if it relates to those keys, you’re being warned. If you mean to be denial about it, you’ll know and cost it later.
The causes of ignoring red flags are complex and can vary greatly. The most common question is “Why do we ignore red flags?” and that’s why. The thing is that love itself is the main reason why do we ignore it. Let’s face it, we’re afraid of telling or knowing the truth. Sometimes we choose a sweet lie than a bitter truth. We’re afraid when reality doesn’t meet our expectations, afraid of facing the consequences, afraid of something would change if we find out the truth. It’s such a waste to consider. Maybe because we think that our intuition is wrong. It is not always either right or wrong. Our purest intuition is always right, but when it comes to thoughts and emotions, it may be wrong.
We should know if red flags aren't just for our romantic lives. It applies in friendship as well. There are red flags that show a willingness to suffer the consequences. First, it decreases self-worth such as having low self-esteem. We are never feel good enough for our partner and likely to do things only to please them. Second, overthinking after find out the unexpected truth. There’s a possibility to lead to psychological problems, like depression and anxiety. Third, when we ignore the red flags and the relationship ends, it creates a feeling of bitterness toward the opposite or same gender. Loneliness is a result of bitterness. Ignoring red flags could be self-created suffering.
By ignoring it surely turns your relationship into a toxic one. Ignoring red flags in relationship is one of the indicates of toxic relationship. Physical abuse and overprotective are the most common signs of it. Actually, there are a lot more than that. How could it turn into toxic relationship? Because you’re being controlled, pushed, abused. It’s clearly what toxic relationship is. Communicate that setting boundaries in relationship is important. Learn how to strengthen and trust your own intuitions. Do not ignore red flags because we know if it causes some serious problems.
References
https://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/why-do-we-ignore-red-flags-in-our-relationships-1024165
https://www.takingcharge.csh.umn.edu/explore-healing-practices/intuition-healthcare/-intuition-always-right
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-flux/201407/10-relationship-red-flags
https://paidforarticles.com/4-fatal-consequences-to-women-who-ignore-red-flags-in-relationships-43052
https://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/why-do-we-ignore-red-flags-in-our-relationships-1024165
https://www.takingcharge.csh.umn.edu/explore-healing-practices/intuition-healthcare/-intuition-always-right
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-flux/201407/10-relationship-red-flags
https://paidforarticles.com/4-fatal-consequences-to-women-who-ignore-red-flags-in-relationships-43052
