Jennifer Powers | How to Defuse Tantrums

There are no perfect, “right” ways to deal with a toddler’s tantrums, but most experts agree that hitting and shouting are the most ineffective strategies. Short-term solutions such as begging and bribing are also not ideal. Giving in can also lead to more tantrums.

When kids know that “no” means “no,” they are less likely to act out, which can help parents and kids feel more in control. It’s important to focus on the behavior of the child instead of the emotional attack. This might sound challenging, but in perspective, it’s not unrealistic to refrain from shouting at your coworkers. We have to treat our kids the same way we treat our colleagues but at a developmentally appropriate level.

If your child has been having tantrums, here are some helpful strategies to help calm them down.